Miserable at your workplace?

  • Ali Al-Aradi

    HRD Lecturer & Writer

Maybe some time you feel yourself working in the wrong working environment, surrounded by such negative people. They may whine, scream, glare, pout, or call you all sorts of names, but never does it mean that you must pick up on any of it, you can lovingly and politely choose to stay positive. Simply realize that another person’s negative attitude is that person’s problem, and does not have to dictate your behaviour in any way.

You never have to be miserable because of someone else’s bad attitude, your own attitude is yours to control, and you can do with it what you please, while others will often attempt to draw you into their negativity.

The most powerful response to negativity is not more negativity. The most powerful, confident, effective response is to keep yourself focused on moving positively forward. Smile, and know that you are in control of how you feel, what you think and how you act. Offer your best, most sincerely positive face to the world, no matter what kind of faces you find looking back at you. Rather than being pulled down, you’ll be lifting up, and that’s a powerful, effective place to be.

When you have mercy for others, you will able to understating and accept their feelings, emotions and behaviour and provide them with the right kind of mental support. Then you will able to give them courage without being influenced negatively with their feelings. So your mercy influences yourself positively too as you able to keep your smile under all circumstances.


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